Then it will go away and come back. Everyone described me as "strong". Right now my biggest symptom is my bladder. Hello, please can someone help to ease the absolute terror I have that I've got some terrible neurological disease? I saw the most horrific things. i also take a variety of supplements- calcium, b, d, probiotic, etc and my husband is thinking i'm a hypochondriac! This page is used to house a list of albums in Extreme Music's Scoreganics (SCS) series. She practices in Washington state and im in Virginia so i have to watch her on YouTube. Other researchers have found that couples that utilize "you" language during conflict discussions have less effective interactions. I did many tests what i know is i have Gerd . No cancer or ulcer found, thank God! They put it down to diverticulitis, which of course can cause digestive issues too. This can often help the person who is receiving the feedback feel less criticized and more open to making changes. I read a post you wrote about shoulder blade,throat and ear pain. Blood tests ok too. The use of I-messages is also more likely to evoke feelings of empathy, cooperation, and openness to negotiation in listeners. Afraid that my insurance would deny the payment of the colonoscopy after I had it done (no prior authorization needed and I am not 50 or older), I decided to wait my symptoms out and sure enough, they have improved. Im not happy for anyones suffering but happy to have met you awesome ladies who have validated exactly what I experience. It's taken over me, honestly, every aches and pains I fear the worse, I'm scared to be alone and I get panic attacks. The technical storage or access is necessary for the legitimate purpose of storing preferences that are not requested by the subscriber or user. It's strange, I got thru peri and meno without too much trouble except for maybe some sudden outbursts of anger (and I'm not an angry gal!) I am so relieved to have found your post. One common pitfall when using "I feel' statements is to use them as a way to express a judgment or assign blame to the other person. I use calendula every morning. Honestly it's terrible. The nauseau and anxiety are just awful. For example, a person might say something like, "I feel like you don't care.". I was so worried and Google is the worst! Now awful riots and my niece is a police officer in Milwaukee and the things she tells and sends me are down right frightening so I think with all I am sure the stress is not helping. Hot flashes come and go. I saw a urologist video by a female urologist, Kelly Caperpace or something like that. I still wasn't happy and wanted it investigated further and had a fibroscan done. As much as i hate doing this because i don't want to go down the hormone path, i started using vaginal estrogen. I also have developed a health anxiety. And here's the worst part. So i have been vigilant in my drinking. I apologize for the TMI. It occured to me when I had a bout of yeast infections that would not go away without diflucan for about three months, but the feeling when I knew I had a yeast infection was bladder discomfort like Interstitial Cystitis. Thank goodness for your reply. On bad days, my whole body hurts. The idea of "I statements" was introduced during the 1960s by psychologist Thomas Gordon as a way to help children learn to connect emotions with behaviors during play therapy. I started the Premarin last night and only use a pea size amt on the outside and near the opening. praying for us all, Hi there! I am the caretaker in my house. What a difference a pronoun makes: i/we versus you/me and worried couples perceptions of their interaction quality. I never use to be like this. My kids are grown and gone as well..i do feel lonely and the few friends I have they don't have it as bad as us so they don't understand..like you im seating here constantly worrying. My health anxiety is dreadful. This has topped me off as well as extremely heavy periods which last for days! Im looking forward to it! 5 Signs of an Energy Vampire and How to Cope, Effects of Conflict and Stress on Relationships, Relationship Emotions: How to Express Feelings in a Relationship, How Nitpicking Can Damage Your Relationship, How to Improve Your Relationships With Effective Communication Skills, Newlywed Advice: Tips for New Married Couples, Daily Tips for a Healthy Mind to Your Inbox, I understand you feel that way, but I feel this way: the benefits of I-language and communicating perspective during conflict, What a difference a pronoun makes: i/we versus you/me and worried couples perceptions of their interaction quality, Journal of Language and Social Psychology. I will be fine for a few weeks and out of the blue I feel like I have a knot in my upper stomach and feel like throwing up. I last bled in December and FSH test came out at 76. I think my bladder and digestive issues are the biggest problem causing my health anxiety. My Alp levels came back elevated for the first time ever at 128. Your self worth, self esteem, self confidence and all that other good 'self' stuff is gone right out the window. Im 55; will be 56 in August. i wake up at 5am feeling so sick. All the best x. I do have fibroids and IBS and am recovering from Covid too (mine was very gastric) so none of that helps me understand what's going on and why. This Corona Virus lockdown is not helping either. I understand the confusion between peri symptoms and recovering from Covid. This defeats the goal of using feeling statements. The best news us it came back benign. Thank you for your response , The gastro advises me after taking the antibiotics for Sibo then do food map diet and take one of the PPI omeprazole along probiotic and see if it gets better then if not they will ck my acid level by inserting a tube as you said sometimes we have low acid . And always scared of everything. i did speak to a therapist about it which really helped and i told my parents. This article discusses what "I feel" statements are, how they are used, and why they are beneficial in communication. Two different meds, for this, and neither one helped. I hope this passes because it does totally drain the life out of you. im on HRT patch and anti depressant but i dont think this one is working so i may need to switch. Starts off with a headache and nausea like morning sickness! Take care! hope we all do . Me too , i took propranolol for palpitaions and felt that im about to passout . I have a rheumatologist appointment next Friday even though thankfully autoimmune disease has been ruled out. Feeling statements can be helpful in both everyday communication as well as in therapeutic settings. 6 years ago, Then I was off balance at times. It just feels like its never going to end! im desperately searching for a good dr that specializes in perimenopause - menopause. please let me know . my latest fears are thinking i no longer love my bf and that i am attracked to women. I believe in GOD, so I put all my faith in him. I hear you. I don't understand how hormones can do this to a person. When I first started this menopause "thang" I was like "this is a piece of cake"! I was just about ready to start to take medication then I got my period and that was the end of it. Instead, speakers should keep the focus on their own emotions, how the issue is affecting them, and what solutions might help. I just turned 53 and have been post-menopausal for almost 2 years. Wow, that is expensive! It's hard to think positive, I mean really hard, and we end up wallowing in self pity and just feeling sorry for ourselves. Then once I've calm down I drive myself back home. Today I felt normal! I've had all scans bloods done it goes on! These I-statements should state how the speaker is feeling, connect it to an issue, and offer a possible solution. No one told me about the weird anxiety, vertigo and digestive issues. i have horrible nausea on and off all day everyday and no appetite!! I dont have too much longer, God willing! April 15, 2020 will hopefully be my new day! Medical Reviewers confirm the content is thorough and accurate, reflecting the latest evidence-based research. I've had perimenopause for the last two years. People sometimes find feeling statements extremely difficult. Skilled Interpersonal Communication: Research, Theory and Practice. x. My alp levels were normal back in May, 2019. has anyone else felt this and any relief or diagnosis? You are going to laugh about the shoulder blade/throat and ear pain. Im 55; will be 56 in August. I feel such dread, especially in the morning. Bladder still bothers me with this pressure. Looking back I am pretty sure I am 8 months into it but symptoms are getting worse. i exhaust myself worrying all the time. When people talk about feelings, they often have a tendency to assign blame first while downplaying the feeling. Worst day of my life. I am taking a natural supplement for perimenopause but don't know if it's helping. But since this anxiety I am feeling very lonely and scared. Our clinical information meets the standards set by the NHS in their Standard for Creating Health Content guidance. I have patches on my feet that burn, yet when I look there is nothing there, my body goes stiff and I feel like I'm swaying, I have strange feelings in my fingers, I have panic attacks with sob, sweating, fast heart rate every time I need a bowel movement. I have had this deep ache and almost burning type sensation right on top of my pubic bone. Can I ask which menopause supplements are you taking? underwent upper and lower endoscopies today in hopes of finding out why appetite gone and nauseous. my constant upset stomach/trapped air burping/ feeling unsteady when i walk is the worst one, amxiety, feel like i have ongoing flu. Verywell Mind articles are reviewed by board-certified physicians and mental healthcare professionals. Insomnia. Journal of Language and Social Psychology. I feel like under the possession of an evil force. I know what it's like when you are just wanting someone to talk to and seems like you are going through this alone. God bless . You really will be ok. Everything gynecological has changed, it feels different. But it's one of the perimenopause symptoms some of us experience as I speak to other women going thru perimenopause and some have talked about this kind of symptoms. Posted Use of the forums is subject to our Terms of Use Running can also help you to better concentrate. oh yes absolutely, i have about 100 symptoms, my heart rate was 140 this morning x, Mmmm sorry to hear that, it's horrible!! I don't have any other "bad" symptoms like bloating, bleeding, heart burn, weight gain just this pressure down. I then drove back home and quietly went to bed. My mom never mentioned it. I know what you mean about chocolate I drank a choc shake the other day and I had horrible refux. 348 users are following. i have tried exercise. How are you honey! I hope this works, too soon to tell right now. I occasionally get tachy but not as often as I used to. I am 49 and I swear this hit me overnight. My primary care doc set me up with an ENT to determine if my head had something to do with my nasal sinuses. All of a sudden I had almost every one of the perimenapause symptoms. Could this be hormones? It would last a few days each month and I had to make myself eat. do you feel good after taking only Oregano oil ? I have aches and pains all over my body hot and cold all night I cant sleep headaches all the time dizzy tired pain in my left side it feels and sounds like the rib pain you ladies were speaking of but just sore every morning waking up feeling like doom its driving me crazy and its hard to talk to anyone about it thats not going through it because they just think that theres something wrong with you or youre having anxiety but its way much much deeper than that, but the dry mouth and the dry eyes and pain in the body is what is bothering me the most besides everything else I dont even look the same when I look in the mirror I feel like Im somebody else like everything is changed and Im not the same person I was just a year ago I have to fix this I pray on it I buy things to make me feel better and they dont but Im going to find a way to fix this I have to oh and I cant forget the buzzing in my ears Ive never experienced anything so horrible in my life all of this is just horrific but Im going to pray about it and Im definitely going to get better I have to. I dont hardly have it anymore. I tell my doctors I think the anxiety and digestive issues are hormone related but they look at me like I'm crazy.I'm looking for a new doctor who is female and post menopausal that has a clue what this stage is all about. i feel like i am slowly dying and even tho all my tests come back normal ( and i havr had a lot ) that they are missing something thats gonna kill me. We are strong women and our bodies go through so much (bleed like a stuck pig for decades of our life, push amazing objects our of us the size of an average bowling ball then try and figure out what to do with this object for the next 18 years cuz the little suckers don't come with handbooks, our bodies are dis-figured and scared out of love, then we go through THIS - lol). It was horrible but it has gotten alot better. I've had it all my life, but it's really flared up now with the perimenopause. I certainly don't feel that now. I've been in perimenopause for five years now, but this fear and anxiety started this year, now with the lockdown and Covid19 it's even harder for me. Although i hate that other women are suffering, at least i know im not imagining these issues. I am having the same thing. Stretching and walking seems to help. For me, faith too is cornerstone in this struggle. https://patient.info/forums/discuss/i-feel-like-im-dying-543054. Omg. I don't have hot flushes just headaches sore throat and anxiety all the time!! Upgrade to Patient Pro Medical Professional? Have you ever had difficulty burping? Couples who are in conflict often find themselves blaming one another for the problems they are facing. it started jan 2016 but past 3 months have beem horrible. i've had numerous tests done as well, but I still get all these aches and pains, which lead me to think the worse. It also covers how people can use these feeling statements and potential mistakes to watch for. What next! I wish you well with everything and hope these symptoms will be a thing of the past for all of us. My worst symptom is health anxiety. was wondering if you found out what it was and how long you had it and did it ever go away. Allergies are also annoying, coffee and oats for me and now I crave a cappuccino and porridge!! Always speak to your doctor before acting and in cases of emergency seek I seen your post and it sounds like me. We will get through this together/apart and I can't tell you (to the moderators) how much I personally appreciate this forum.It has some nights made the difference of me going to sleep with peace of mind I am not alone! Like you i do gets bouts of no energy but then some days I almost feel normal then bam you wake up and there is a new issue to deal with. if so thats a big hope for me . I've had my blood, urine, fecal checked --- all have come out normal. Our softgels are made using nanoemulsion technology that increases CBD's bioavailability, making it easier for the body to . I am afraid to ask. I'm praying every day. Panicking with every single new symptom and the pandemic is not helping. I didn't want to take antibiotic (because I have severe allergy to some) so I started with the natural route. Thank you for reading my frustrations . Hugs to you. I've been to the doctors office twice regarding this. Thanks for that Sherricl I also had one polyp removed there and then just waiting for another one to be removed and hoping all is well with test results . I started having stabbing (like almost electric shock pains) just above my pelvis bone. I know exactly what you mean! Patient aims to help the world proactively manage its healthcare, supplying evidence-based information on a wide range of medical and health topics to patients and health professionals. can be really tender when i breathe in deeply. My main concern right now is this bladder pressure. My sed rate was also high over 120. It allows the speaker to express control and ownership of their emotions without directly accusing the other person of being at fault. To provide the best experiences, we use technologies like cookies to store and/or access device information. My fault though i guess i should have googled "urinary problems in menopause" . I took a 5mg valium and jumped in my car and drove to the vicinity of the hospital thinking I'm going to get a heart attack and die making several rounds on the block without going in! Not sure why or what happens to our body during those times. Good luck to us ! I NORMALLY have labs done every year but this year has been epic so I have not been in but have never had any bad labs (hope I don't jinx myself). It started a month ago. have you ever been given an explanation? Mine is like you said with the upper stomach. 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